Father Stu (2024)

Remembering the priest whose life inspired a blockbuster movie.

Summer 2022 | Rick Becker

Father Stuart Long (1963-2014)

By now, you’ve heard about Stuart Long and his big Hollywood debut. Long was the Montana boxer and ne’er-do-well who became a Catholic and then, against all odds, a priest. Father Stu had a rich and fruitful ministry, despite contracting a rare debilitating condition—inclusion body myositis—that cut his life short at age 50.

The biopic came about after actor Mark Wahlberg determined that Long’s remarkable story should be better known. Father Stu, starring Wahlberg in the title role, opened in theaters during Holy Week. Whatever its merits, the film caused a stir among the Catholic faithful—not least due to its R rating and strong language.

Yet criticism of the screenplay’s coarse dialogue should not detract from the film’s focus: Father Stu himself. Long’s clinging to Christ amid intense suffering is an edifying lesson in love.

Love, wrote Pope St. John Paul II, is “the answer to the question of the meaning of suffering,” and this “answer has been given by God to man in the cross of Jesus Christ.”

Father Stu lived this answer in his broken body throughout his brief pastoral career, but he had been tutored in its reality well before he got to seminary.

Long’s 1994 baptism and reception into the Church, for example, were prompted in part by a motorcycle accident that almost killed him. Following his conversion, Long taught at a Catholic high school and then headed to New York City in 1997 to spend time with the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal—to encounter the poor and learn to serve them as ambassadors of the King.

While in New York, Long got to know the order’s founder, Father Benedict Groeschel, CFR—a psychologist deeply interested in how humans cope with tragedy, pain, and loss.

“To boast in the Cross,” wrote Father Groeschel, “is an almost fierce gesture when we confront all that would defeat us.”

Such is the kind of talk Stuart Long himself adopted as he grew in faith, and he accelerated his appropriation of this new way of speaking after the friars sent him to prep for seminary at Franciscan University of Steubenville.

In 2003, Long entered Oregon’s Mount Angel Seminary as an ordination candidate for the Diocese of Helena. While enrolled there, Long fell ill, and his disabling diagnosis was identified. Still, Bishop George Thomas of Helena decided to proceed with the ordination.

“I kept being prompted by the Holy Spirit,” Thomas said in an interview. “In my estimation, there’s a lot of power in redemptive suffering, and that’s exactly how he lived.”

It’s how he lived, and it’s how he embodied the language of God’s love through embracing profound suffering.

“That cross of his disease was the most powerful way to serve people,” said Father Bart Tolleson, who had been ordained with Father Stu and knew him well. “He was tireless in his service and … fearless even though he was limited.”

That says it all.

Rick Becker, MA ’96, writes from South Bend, Indiana.

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FAQs

Is Mel Gibson Catholic? ›

Gibson's Traditionalist Catholic upbringing was also the target of criticism.

Did Father Stu marry his girlfriend? ›

He had brain swelling and was not expected to survive, but recovered. In order to marry his Catholic girlfriend, Long agreed to getting himself baptized as a Catholic, and was baptized at the Easter Vigil in 1994. However, Long felt a call to the priesthood at this time. He decided to forgo the marriage.

What did Jesus tell Father Stu in the bar? ›

It's an outrageously funny, heartfelt and uplifting drama about the redemptive transformation of one man's soul through the grace of God and the power of faith. “Life's gonna give you a gut-full of reasons to be angry,” a man resembling Jesus tells Stu at a bar. “You only need one to be grateful.”

Who was Stu talking to in the bar? ›

At the local bar, Stu has a conversation with Barfly, played by Niko Nicotera. Barfly seemingly dispenses the words of a crazy man, but those very same words will soon be heard by Stu as that of the Savior himself. Apone and Lewis began mulling over the Barfly character before they left the Dominican Republic.

Is Matthew McConaughey Roman Catholic? ›

A Christian, McConaughey often speaks publicly about his faith. He attends a non-denominational church.

What religion is Mark Wahlberg? ›

Wahlberg is Catholic, and has described his religion as "the most important part" of his life; he goes to Mass twice on Sundays. He fervently supports same-sex marriage despite the Church's opposition.

Did Father Stu sleep with Carmen? ›

His father visits and re-establishes contact, though their relationship is still strained. Carmen visits Stu as he is recovering at home and they have an intimate physical moment that appears to lead to sex, but it is revealed later that Carmen used the moment to show Stu that he could resist the temptation.

Why did Stu get fat in Father Stu? ›

Mark Wahlberg is the latest actor to transform his body for a role. In "Father Stu," in which the Oscar-nominee plays a boxer-turned-priest, he gained 30 pounds to portray Stuart Long towards the end of his life when he had a rare autoimmune disease called inclusion body myositis.

How many F words are in Father Stu? ›

"Jesus" is blasphemed 2x throughout the movie. 74 uses of the f-word. "This was only in the R-Rated Original Theatrical Version." There is a PG-13 edition called "Father Stu: Reborn" in which all the F-words are cut out and replaced with non-cuss words.

Was Sally Struthers in Father Stu? ›

The story about father stew was fascinating.. Mark Wahlberg, Sally Struthers and Mel Gibson all did a fabulous job.

Were Stu and Billy in love? ›

Right before the release of Scream 2022, Kevin Williamson took to Pride Source to validate the rumors that Billy and Stu are queer-coded. The fictional killers share physically intimate moments onscreen and show dependency on each other.

Did Father Stu's parents get back together? ›

But God had very different plans for Stu. And everything happened for a reason. “I think the most important thing, and a story that I love to share, is that not only did he reconnect with his dad and get his mom and dad back together, he also had both of his parents baptized while he was on a hospital bed.

Is Denzel Washington a Catholic? ›

Religious beliefs

Washington is Pentecostal Evangelical Christian and a member of the West Angeles Church of God in Christ. He has considered becoming a preacher. Washington stated in 1999, "A part of me still says, 'Maybe, Denzel, you're supposed to preach. Maybe you're still compromising.'

Is Antonio Banderas a Catholic? ›

A longtime supporter of Málaga CF, Banderas is also an officer (mayordomo de trono) of a Roman Catholic religious brotherhood in his hometown of Málaga and travels during Holy Week to take part in the processions.

Is Liam Neeson Roman Catholic? ›

Brought up Catholic, he was named Liam after a local priest. He has three sisters, Elizabeth, Bernadette, and Rosaleen.

Is Jim Caviezel a Catholic? ›

Caviezel is a devout Catholic. In a 2017 interview, Caviezel talked about the importance of his Catholic faith, the lasting impact that The Passion of the Christ has had on his life, and his special devotion to the Virgin Mary.

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